How Prepared is your relationship toolbox?

Before you walk down the aisle and say ‘I do’, how prepared is your marriage toolbox?  How is your communication?  How well are you dealing with conflict resolution?  When the dating phase is gone, do you want some tips on how to keep love alive?
Seminar One

Before I Say “Yes”

Are you and your partner in talks about marriage, but haven’t popped the question yet?  Maybe you haven’t talked about marriage yet but are wondering if you are compatible with each other.  How confident are you in saying ‘yes’ if a marriage proposal were to happen?  Our desire is to give tools to couples to allow them to assess if they are ready to commit to each other.  Each night is designed like a date night where couples will learn a new topic to help understand each other better.  Couples will have moments where they can discuss between themselves the topic over coffee, snacks, and dessert (you can say ‘yes’ to dessert too!)

October 2 – 30 

Running every Tuesday from 7pm – 9pm

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Seminar Two

Before I Say “I Do”

Before you walk down the aisle and say ‘I do’, how prepared is your marriage toolbox?  How is your communication?  How well are you dealing with conflict resolution?  When the dating phase is gone, do you want some tips on how to keep love alive?  Our desire is to prepare and give tools to couples to understand how to effectively navigate through their future marriage.  It is a designed to be like a date night where couples will learn, but also put into practice the tools they are given through conversing with their partner over coffee and desserts.  Before you say, ‘I do’ in marriage, we hope after this five week course you will say ‘I do’ to answering this question: ‘do you have the basic tools to get navigate through your marriage’.

October 4 – Novemeber 1

Running every Thursday from 7pm – 9pm

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General Outline of Each Night

OPENING | 5-10 minutes
Greeting/Get name tag/Snacks
Light Icebraker/Intro of topics | 5 minutes

Will prepare a light icebreaker each week that corresponds with the topic

Each week will have two different topics that will be discussed

Intro question for whole group to discuss

Overview of Topics | 15-20 minutes

Teaching on the topic (e.g. communication)

Each couple will discuss the topic with questions given to them as well as their prepare and enrich results

Dessert Break | 15 minutes
Overview of Second Topic | 15-20 minutes

Teaching on the topic (e.g. communication 2.0)

Each couple will discuss the topic with questions given to them.

CLOSING | 10 minutes

Will review the topics discussed and take some moments for couples to reflect

IN ADDITION

On some days, we will have activities, or have a video played.

We will have different guest speakers to come in and share, so this will take up some time as well.

Last day we will ask for a survey

F.A.Q.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do we have to talk about our relationship in front of other people?
No, you are welcome to if you are open to, but the only time you will be speaking about your relationship is with your partner.
Who comes to the seminar? Is it just for engaged couples and young couples or is there something for mature couples too?
      The seminar “before I say ‘yes’” is catered towards couples who are not yet engaged, and have never been married before.

The seminar “before I say ‘I do’” will cover material for new couples who have never been married.  Mature couples are welcome to come to this seminar, but know it is catered for a specific demographic.

What is provided?
We will be providing snacks, coffee, tea, a couple’s workbook, and an assessment test through prepare-enrich.  ‘Prepare-enrich’ (www.prepare-enrich.com) is an assessment test to help better understand yourself and your partners styles, habits, family, communication, etc.  It will be used as a guide to help during the seminars.          
How should I dress?
Dress for a fun time, relaxing time.  Wear something comfortable such as jeans and a tshirt.
Can we promote the seminar in our church or community?
Yes!  It would be great to have additional help spreading this seminar.  For more information email: schung@thebridgemarkham.com or go to www.beforeisayyes.ca
What should we bring?
When you check in, you will receive a pen, the couple’s workbook, nametag.  You are encouraged to bring a notebook if you would like to take any notes, but it is not necessary.
Do you provide childcare?
At this time, we currently do NOT offer childcare, but in some special cases we are willing to make some exceptions.  Please contact schung@thebridgemarkham.com for any further questions.
How do we register?
You can register yourself and your partner at www.beforeisayyes.ca
Is it possible for only one partner to attend?
This seminar is built around both parties being present for the seminar.  Much of the time will be spent during the seminar will be spent around discussing with your partner different topics.  If individuals were to register, they would not benefit from the discussion portion of the night.
What exactly does the registration fee include?
The Registration fee includes, snacks, the prepare-enrich assessment ($35), and the workbook ($25).
Is this seminar just for Christians?
No it is not.  The seminar is open to all couples who are looking to engage further with their partner prior to marriage or prior to getting engaged.
Who can attend?
For the “Before I say ‘yes’” seminar, it is catered to couples who are looking to get engaged.  Couples who have talked about marriage, or are thinking about marriage, this seminar is for you!

For the “Before I say ‘I do’” seminar, it is catered to couples who are already engaged and are planning their wedding.  If you are married and did not have a chance to get some marriage tools for your toolbox, you are also welcome to join, but know the material is geared around couples who are engaged.

Where

Group Location

the bridge markham

5440 16th Avenue,
Markham, ON, L3P 3J3

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